What is going on with people today? I mean, does no one realize what the meaning of the word marriage means anymore? Why is it that women always want what they can't have? I'll tell you why, because we were all raised to be princesses who get everything the want no matter the cost. Well at least that's what someone of us believed. For the others who think that this is still true: GROW UP! Now I know that there are a lot of people out there who don't want to get married and will stay in a "common law" marriage (depending on what state you live in) for the rest of their lives, so when something bad happens, you just go your separate ways and move on from the situation. Or you fight for a little bit, have a few people in between, make up and put all the people you screwed while you were "taking a break" behind you.
Well marriage is different. Not only is divorce EXPENSIVE, but it's ugly. All the things that nasty things that get thrown around, and then there's the shit talking on top of all of that. Bring kids into the mix, and things just get worse. Marriage is something that I, like most people, do not take for granted. I did that the first time around and I ended being separated from my husband before I was 20 (yes I know that I was young, sue me). I knew that this time around I wasn't going to let anyone, myself included, mess up my marriage. Well I bust my ass to make sure that my man is happy, but I guess there are just some bitches out there, and (let's face it) men, who don't know when to say NO! And I lump men into that category because some of them think with the wrong head when it comes to important situations.
I understand that mistakes can (and do) happen. I understand that no one is perfect. What I do not and may never understand, is how a man (and many women) can think that if they are sneaking around, they WON'T GET CAUGHT! Again, I understand people make mistakes. Yeah, the mistake of thinking they are immune to getting caught or into trouble. The bulk of this post is mainly thrown towards one person (female), but it has to do with all men and women who think with the wrong part of their body.
Oh yes, and it is not wise to lie to someone who knows you better than you know yourself! If this person knows the kind of sounds that come out of your body while you sleep at night, then they will know that you are lying. Plain and simple. They know how you sound when you are fishing for the words to say that will (hopefully) get across that you are not trying to cover something you just did wrong. Let me give an example. A mom walks into the room just as the soccer ball crashes into the lamp. The only one around is the son (or daughter) who 1. looks like he (or she) just did something wrong 2. their eyes are darting all across the room looking for someone else to blame. Once they realize that there is no one else there and Mom pretty much saw everything she needed to see, it's time to think......quickly. This is when the sweating starts, the trying to suck up kicks in (giving hugs, trying to give kisses, or saying something completely random that has nothing to do with said task at hand just to try and get your mind off of the fact that something wrong has been done), or fumbling with words as they say them (when you know damn well that they are completely capable of forming complete sentences even when under the extremest pressure).
Mom's and Wives are one in the same when it comes to knowing their children and husband. They know when they are lying. So the next time I say that what I walked into the kitchen on, was not really what you said had happened (cause I know for damn sure you didn't "fall into her"), you will know that I'm dead serious when I tell you to get the hell on the sofa, cause you are NOT getting anymore privileges. Maybe you should go to "her" house, she may be able to get you everything you are not getting from me. But be careful, if her boyfriend finds out, I won't be the least of your worries.
I'm just saying.
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